At the end of the Winter semester, 1982, my life changed
forever. I had no way to anticipating such a dramatic change. I was in the same
singles ward. I was still at BYU. And two of my three roommates were the same
as well. Things looked good for continued anonymity.
We did move from our ratty old apartment at Le Chateau to a different complex a few
blocks south. And I did get Brian Price as my new roommate. I served with Brian
on my mission. But neither of those two events had anything to do with my dramatic
life change.
The change started when Bishop Durant was released and
Bishop William Swinyard was called. With a new bishop came a new bishopric. The
transition from Winter semester to Spring/Summer term brings a new, smaller
ward. Combine a new bishop with a new ward and you get massive changes. This is
how it all started.
As I mentioned, I did my best to remain an unknown in my
previous singles ward. And I was quite successful at it. But that ended the
second week Bishop Swinyard appeared on the scene. I was asked to meet with him
after church and I assumed it would be one of the get-to-know you interviews.
Those are relatively painless, so I was unalarmed.
Well, after a few minutes of chit-chat, he called me to be
his Executive Secretary. What!!!! He had no clue who I was and that such a
calling was antithetical to my divine mission to stay anonymous. Now I would be
attending ward leadership meetings and, worst of all, I had to talk to people,
even use the phone.
You got to be kidding!!!
Then he raised the stakes. He said that I represented the
bishop for the ward members because I lived in the boundaries and he did not. I
asked him what that meant. He said that is was essential that I attend ALL ward
activities. That included socials, FHE, and anything else that may constitute
an activity.
You got to be kidding!!!!
My wonderful life just collapsed. Of course, I could have
said no. But I had been taught not to reject a calling. So I was stuck. I accepted
the calling and now I was an integral part of the ward.
I have often wondered how Bishop Swinyard came up with the
idea to call me. Sure, there is inspiration and I believe in that. But I think
my roommate, Steve Murphy, had a hand in this. He was the Ward Clerk and he
kept that calling during the transition. I think he told Bishop Swinyard to
call me to this position. I can’t prove this. But it does make sense.
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